He told me how his ex was dishonest (I knew this) so his social media stalking started around then. I felt like he didn't trust me, that he was crossing boundaries, and I didn't know why he did it. Today we talked and I actually got mad, an emotion I don't often feel. I went to bed OK only to wake up feeling upset. He told me that he had been checking my account as part of his daily ritual (!!) and keeping tabs on me for months now. He then admitted to already seeing the question earlier that day when I posted it. During date night, I ended up asking him the same question because I wanted his advice.
Yesterday, I made a post asking for advice about some friends of mine. After he found a post and it led to an argument, I stopped asking for advice in general, even on my new account when I made it. With the previous account, sometimes I asked for relationship advice, and most commenters would reply "dump him!" even when the issue was fixable. The advice part is what was kind of tricky. I used the old one to post things, ask for advice, and comment on other posts. Last fall, he had found my previous account, so I made a new one. During that talk it was revealed he found my anonymous social media account (i.e. Last night was FaceTime date night, which became "deep talks" night. A great five months of no arguing and pure long-distance bliss. We had our first fight at a distance, followed by a second one two months later. It was AWFUL at the start jealousy and miscommunication abound. Initially we broke up, only to get back together to give it a try long distance. My partner and I dated for a little over one year in person until I moved far away to chase a career.
Maybe it's the self-isolation or maybe it's Maybelline, but I need your advice. I have made it almost a whole two years of dating my partner without sending you a letter.
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